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One of the many stupid feelings humans are capable of having is the private, repulsive rage of seeing someone getting support and sympathy for a problem no one helped you with when you were having it, either because you didn’t have anyone or because it never occurred to you that you could ask for help. Suddenly the world seems to split into two – the realm that contains people like them, the connected and loved – and the realm that contains you, the miserable and the alone, who must suffer in solitude. This is sufficiently horrible that you start grasping for reasons to make this reality acceptable, and a mentally available one is that it is superior to be in the miserable solitude realm, that the problem is one that should be solved with self sufficiency and dignity. That this other person is pathetic for being aided and loved when you were not. Scorn is more palatable than confronting the notion that you could have received aid (if you had made different choices or been luckier), that you desperately wish you could have been aided but were not. Scorn is more palatable than the howling hunger for things to have been different for you. So your mind chooses scorn.

It is also a bad place to be. Human existence is full of such traps.

OH BOY got this one real bad sometimes and I have to walk myself back from that ugly jealous feeling that other people got things that I desperately wanted it was just sheer dumb lack of luck that my family is whack and that sometimes people take a long time to get back to me it's not a judgement of me as a person silent suffering is not superior to being connected some people are just luckier at being connected i'm going to keep trying and keep making friends and keep trying to keep old ones
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saechla: “ Das Problem zu erkennen, ist wichtiger, als die Lösung zu erkennen, denn die genaue Darstellung des Problems führt zur Lösung. Albert Einstein https://saechla.de/zitate-aus-dem-schwabenland/ ” To recognize a problem is more important than...
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Das Problem zu erkennen, ist wichtiger, als die Lösung zu erkennen, denn die genaue Darstellung des Problems führt zur Lösung.
Albert Einstein

https://saechla.de/zitate-aus-dem-schwabenland/

thatswhywelovegermany

To recognize a problem is more important than to find the solution because the exact description of the problem leads to the solution.

Albert Einstein (1879 – 1955), German-Swiss-American theoretical physicist

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