Man I’m still thinking about the importance of happy endings and how much this all plays out with the past say, 5-10 years of mainstream media.
I was talking to @irisbleufic about this topic recently and how it’s sort of a running joke that I’m so behind on watching new tv and movies and a huge part of that is the amount of entropy, trauma, and (shock-value) death there is in all of these and how much worse it’s gotten recently. And considering the state of the world and how much energy it takes to just exist as who I am, I can’t take in all that pain on a regular basis and not have it destroy me.
We all know the Le Guin’s line from The Ones That Walk Away From Omelas: “The trouble is that we have a bad habit, encouraged by pedants and sophisticates, of considering happiness as something rather stupid. Only pain is intellectual, only evil interesting.” But really, think about how much the general arc of stories has changed with the swivel point being around 2013/2014. Compare the first and second Pacific Rim. Compare the first season of Gotham (There will be light) with the current season of Gotham. Compare DC before the nu52 reboot and after (most obvious in the Riddler characterization imo). Compare hopeful 90s/early 2000s scifi to the gritty, human-nature-is-greed-and-harming-other apocalypse scifi of today. Compare the original finale of The X Files (Maybe there’s hope) and even IWTB (Don’t give up, M/S living together) with the revival consciously breaking them up.
And I’m just very Tired of it all. I want happy endings dammit. I want people to fight to stay together. I want people to make it. I want the world to get better.
Happy endings aren’t boring, and tearing characters apart is not necessarily good story telling. Death and suffering is not the only way for a character grow. Love is not foolish and hope is not naive.
To quote Zinn: “An optimist isn’t necessarily a blithe, slightly sappy whistler in the dark of our time. To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we see only the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something. If we remember those times and places–and there are so many–where people have behaved magnificently, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction.”
And the stories of compassion, sacrifice, courage, and kindness are just as compelling and should be told again and again.