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My therapist once told me: what if your mom never changes and goes to her death bed with absolutely no guilt about all the damage she caused? Your healing can’t depend on someone else deciding they also want to heal.
And it’s been the hardest lesson ever tbfh.
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Closure isn't something anyone else can give you. It's something you make for yourself.

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