Hello! An excellent question!
Tiny demonstrates for you! The difference can be quite subtle, in their demeanour.
Plotting is “I am not interested in what you are doing, I am busy plotting Important Frog Things”
Manners is “I am a Very Good Frog, I have Manners! Please reward me!”
I feel like If I were a doll, I’d be pretty close to this.
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