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The most valuable thing I learned doing a Masters degree with depression, anxiety and ADHD was to change my “things I’m bad at” list to “things I can’t do on my own.” Stop thinking of them as things I could do if I tried hard enough, and accept that I can’t accomplish them by effort and willpower alone; they’re genuine neurocognitive deficits, and if I need to do the thing, then just like a blind person reading or a mobility impaired person going up a storey in a building, I need to find a different method.

I’m “bad at” working on long-term projects without an imminent deadline or someone breathing down my neck? Okay, let’s change that: I can’t work on long-term projects without an imminent deadline and someone breathing down my neck. So let’s create an imminent deadline and recruit neck-breathers. Find a sympathetic prof who will agree that 3 weeks before the due date they expect me to show them my preliminary notes and bibliography. Get a friend I trust to block off an hour to sit with me and keep asking, “Are you working on your project?” Write a blog post about my progress. Arrange to trade papers and proofread them with another student.

Accept your limitations and learn to leverage them, instead of buying the neurotypical fairytale that they’ll go away if you just try hard enough.

bead-bead

I needed this so much.

dungeonsdonuts

Very encouraging, especially helpful.

cosmictuesdays

kuttithevangu asked:

did you know there's a folktale about a lion that was so impressed with some guy for how well he kept Shabbat that it became his bodyguard

pipistrellus answered:

this is very motivating incentive to get more serious about shabbat

jewishhenna

It’s a popular Jewish folktale, especially in North Africa: Howard Schwartz published it as a beautiful children’s book which I loved growing up. You can see a description and short folkloric analysis of it here and here.