— How does one stop obsessing about a mean person?

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How does one stop obsessing about a mean person?

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  1. kittyknowsthings said: It’s okay to be angry, but don’t let it consume you. Make the conscious decision to let it go, possibly with the help of a worrystone or something similar, but don’t beat yourself up over it if it doesn’t work right away. Distractions work.
  2. orangemailbox said: Whatever you do, don’t allow yourself to be sucked into a complete obsession with them. Been there, done that, and lost so much in the process. Get angry at what they’ve done, but be sure to let it go so that you can reclaim your own life.
  3. myriadism said: when i really despise someone i put them on the nonexistent list for people who don’t need to exist
  4. sedgery said: Find the right distraction. Tried lots? Try lots more. Like rock climbing or jumping from tall things. Weird stuff.
  5. sleepymccoy said: Commit to stressing for a short period of time then have some tea (or other calming beverage) and distract yourself. With star trek!
  6. atavistique said: Distance yourself from them, remind yourself they’re not worth wasting mental & emotional energy and/or ruining your day over, listen to angry/soothing music (whichever one works for you). General self-care is good too. Long baths, nice food, etc
  7. cosmictuesdays said: One complains about it to a therapist or other trustworthy listener, exercises to deal with the frustration, reads a good translation of Zen meditation or The Tao Te Ching, and then eats a cupcake.
  8. mylittleredgirl said: write really destructive vengeance fic! you don’t have to feel guilty because it’s not About That Person but you get to wage war.
  9. docholodeck said: Watch Star Trek
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