quick poll folks - can you just tell if you love someone romantically? or even if you’re interested in them romantically? or is it like a super vague guessing game between ‘i like you as a person and also your aesthetic’ and… whatever extra is involved in romance?
Even for people who aren’t aro, it’s super vague guessing game.
‘Am I in love? Do I like him or LIKE like him? Do I just want to have sex? I think about him a lot. Is that love? I mean, I don’t think I’d DIE for him, so is it REALLY love?’
Romance is super weird.
Or maybe that’s just me?